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Friday, February 22, 2008

first entry for my fabulous/not-so-fabulous contest!

I've just started to hear from a few of you, but I know there's a lot more, so keep the responses coming! I will blog EVERY response, so everyone has a chance to win a beautiful 16x20 gallery wrap! The first entry is from Melissa. She looked absolutely gorgeous, but looking back has some second thoughts about her dress choice..........



"First, nothing was more exciting than putting on the wedding dress of my dreams. As I had my friends and family help me into my wonderful Kenneth Pool wedding dress, I felt like a princess. The beautiful satin shimmered perfectly, it fit like a glove, and I loved how the dress accented my mother's pearls going down by back. All this sounds just wonderful until I realized that I could barely fit into the antique Bentley I had rented for myself and my parents to take us to the church because my dress was so big! As my father squeezed all of my dress into the backseat (while it was raining), we configured that the only way for me to fit was to sit completely sideways which wasn't what I had in mind for the 40 min drive. I had a gut feeling at this point my dress would become a little problem for me during the day.





As the day progressed, the dress got heavier and heavier and my energy for holding it up got lower and lower. I was started to get pretty sore around dinner time because the weight of the dress was all positioned around my waist and I felt like an engine running out of steam. It was hard to move around on the dance floor, harder to eat, and harder to drink! I actually had to sneak downstairs into the ladies pampering room to take the dress off for a few minutes and breathe! I never thought I would have been in my undies for a few minutes during my wedding so I could catch a breather!!

If I could change anything or advice little brides out there on anything, it would be to pick a LIGHT wedding dress. The day is so much fun and you want to stay as active as possible! I would recommend getting a dress that doesn't weight that much. Honestly, I stepped on the scale with the dress on and I weighed about 18-20 pounds more than I normally do, eek! That's why I was so tired at the end of the day.

I wanted to keep on having fun, so I figured taking off the dress wasn't the end of the world, and I changed into sundress knowing that there had been a ton of great pictures of me in my wedding dress. Coincidentally, my dad forgot the white sundress that I wanted to change into afterwards, so I had to wear a different one.

Which leads me to my next piece of advice, don't sweat the small things that go differently than you planned. So what?, my dad forgot the white dress. When I asked him to put it into the limo, there were a million things going on around us, and he was probably just as nervous getting ready to take his daughter to the church to get married.

I just reminded myself to have fun, smile lots, and look around at all the people who love us. It's a pretty cool feeling and the best experience I have had in my life to date. "

I personally think she looks adorable in her sundress!! What do you think?

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67 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

Great advice (and beautiful images!!)

February 22, 2008 at 5:09 PM  
Blogger Jkullberg said...

I love these pictures!! Melissa you look beautiful!

February 25, 2008 at 7:59 PM  
Blogger sheila said...

the whole day was just perfect and you married the man of your dreams! but you gave upcoming brides something to think about.your photos capture all the feelings and beauty of your day.

March 3, 2008 at 6:33 PM  
Blogger Lee Ann said...

Melis, great advice. Always remember that guests are there to celebrate your marriage, not to check out what you are wearing.

March 3, 2008 at 8:22 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Melissa...you were glowing so much no one even noticed the change!

March 3, 2008 at 9:34 PM  
Blogger Kate said...

Meliss you looked absolutely stunning in both the weeding dress and the sundress

March 4, 2008 at 11:30 AM  
Blogger Joyce said...

Melissa, you were a beautiful bride. If there were problems with your dress, we wouldn't have known. You just kept the perfect smile. You made the best of the situation. Keep smiling!

March 4, 2008 at 3:01 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Love it! Thanks for the advice....

March 4, 2008 at 8:04 PM  
Blogger carolynlaunie said...

you looked ga-ga-gorgeous babes...20 lb dress on a 100 lb frame and all :) xoxo

March 4, 2008 at 9:06 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

The Best Wedding Ive ever been to!

March 4, 2008 at 10:22 PM  
Blogger KH3415 said...

Great advice and an amazing wedding! I love the pictures. You both look so happy.

March 5, 2008 at 7:53 PM  
Blogger Katie said...

Such a fun wedding. You looked beautiful Melissa!!

March 5, 2008 at 7:54 PM  
Blogger Laura said...

Melissa, you made a gorgeous bride and I couldn't have been happier seeing you walk down the aisle. Every bride deserves their day, and yours was absolutely perfect!

March 5, 2008 at 8:00 PM  
Blogger Joy-Anna said...

The pictures are great! You look beautiful!

March 5, 2008 at 8:01 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Hey Melissa -

It was a beautiful wedding and you looked absolutely fabulous!!!

March 5, 2008 at 9:51 PM  
Blogger ad1515 said...

Great wedding and perfectly planned out. Every detail was amazing.

March 6, 2008 at 1:11 PM  
Blogger stace15 said...

Pictures look great. Your wedding was beautiful. I remember your pretty dress and amazing flowers, cake, and delicate details.

March 6, 2008 at 6:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You were such a beautiful bride!

March 6, 2008 at 6:55 PM  
Blogger Karen said...

If your dress was too heavy, we couldn't tell. You looked so elegant! I loved how the pearls went down your back, it was such a romantic touch.

March 6, 2008 at 7:01 PM  
Blogger Dee1424 said...

I loved hearing some of the stories from your day!!!!

March 6, 2008 at 7:16 PM  
Blogger WALSH08 said...

It was such a fun day. We both had a great time and felt honored to be included in all the excitment. I like this blog idea, what a great wedding resource for brides.

March 6, 2008 at 7:19 PM  
Blogger Carol said...

You were a magnificent bride! The day was wonderful despite the weather. I do recall Laura and I having to "assist" you going to the bathroom. You just couldn't manage by yourself with that dress.

March 6, 2008 at 8:06 PM  
Blogger Cooper said...

We had the best time at your beautiful wedding!!!!!

March 7, 2008 at 8:34 AM  
Blogger Alexis said...

You looked stunning in your gown. I remember how pretty you looked walking down the isle. Your vows to each other were just the icing on the cake!

March 7, 2008 at 8:38 AM  
Blogger AlexG said...

Great Advice!

March 7, 2008 at 9:43 AM  
Blogger Elizabeth said...

You were a stunning bride! My husband still talks about the "lamb lollipops" that were passed during cocktail hour!!!

March 7, 2008 at 9:45 AM  
Blogger Susan08 said...

Pictures look just perfect!

March 7, 2008 at 9:47 AM  
Blogger Jackie said...

Great pictures Melissa!!!

March 7, 2008 at 12:00 PM  
Blogger Jessica said...

It was such a fun day!! Thanks for sharing some of your wedding day details.

March 7, 2008 at 12:02 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

The pics are beautiful! This was the most romantic and beautiful wedding I have been to and I am so glad that I got to be there. I love you!!!

March 7, 2008 at 12:51 PM  
Blogger megan torigian said...

the wedding was awesome and the pictures are so pretty and have awesome effects. i love you!

March 7, 2008 at 3:20 PM  
Blogger Megan C. said...

Melissa you had amazing pictures and your advice is so cute. I loved your dress.

March 7, 2008 at 3:23 PM  
Blogger Lizzie said...

You have the most beautiful wedding pictures. Love you girlie!

March 7, 2008 at 3:48 PM  
Blogger Ashley1 said...

The whole wedding day was perfect. You and Matt make the perfect couple.

March 7, 2008 at 4:27 PM  
Blogger June said...

I was so happy to be with you and Matthew that day. Congrats and happily ever after!

March 7, 2008 at 5:12 PM  
Blogger sal said...

Thanks for including me and sending me your link to the blog!

March 7, 2008 at 5:14 PM  
Blogger Mike said...

Great wedding and a great couple. I love you guys!

March 7, 2008 at 5:16 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Meliss, you looked gorgeous! I'm so glad I got you two together ;-)

March 7, 2008 at 5:20 PM  
Blogger Carol said...

Had a great time! Remember Laura and I having to assist you in the ladies room because someone had to hold up your dress.

Carol from jersey

March 7, 2008 at 6:44 PM  
Blogger David said...

We had an excellent time at your wedding! Best Wishes Matthew and Melissa

March 8, 2008 at 7:40 PM  
Blogger Rebecca said...

Dave and I had the greatest time dancing at your wedding! Haha, it was so funny to see Matt break out some of his moves.

March 8, 2008 at 7:42 PM  
Blogger MarkTorigian said...

Count on me for liquor runs on the way to the reception!

March 8, 2008 at 7:44 PM  
Blogger Stephanie said...

Mark and I had a great time at your wedding. Thank you for including me too!

March 8, 2008 at 7:57 PM  
Blogger Melissa said...

Melis, well, at least you didn't puke on your dress like little Sarah (although maybe she should have aimed toward you to give you an excuse to get out of your dress!). Good advice you give- SO true, don't sweat the small stuff on the big day...

March 8, 2008 at 9:09 PM  
Blogger Jean said...

Your wedding day is a wonderful memory. The church, service, and and father who conducted the ceremony were all perfect.

March 8, 2008 at 9:20 PM  
Blogger george said...

melissa,
you were almost as beautiful as your mother was on our wedding day.
love, dad

March 8, 2008 at 9:22 PM  
Blogger Drew&Kate said...

Love these pictures and I love you guys!!!!!

March 8, 2008 at 10:39 PM  
Blogger Frank said...

Matt, I had a blast at your wedding!!! Best wishes to you and Melissa

March 9, 2008 at 5:12 PM  
Blogger Sandy G said...

The whole day was wonderful despite the weather. You and Matt were a picture-perfect couple. Great advice for future brides when considering their wedding dress. Love, Sandy G.

March 9, 2008 at 5:37 PM  
Blogger Andrea said...

Love it! Great piece of advice!

March 9, 2008 at 5:39 PM  
Blogger Ally said...

Such a great day! Even though it started off as a rainy day, the skies cleared, and the rain stopped just as you got ready to walk down the isle. Just magical!

March 9, 2008 at 7:21 PM  
Blogger KellieK said...

You and Matt make the perfect couple. The wedding seemed like just yesterday. I am looking forward to seeing you guys again soon!

March 9, 2008 at 7:45 PM  
Blogger Carolyn said...

Great advice!

March 10, 2008 at 3:56 PM  
Blogger Greg said...

Great wedding!

March 10, 2008 at 8:15 PM  
Blogger EmilyandDavid said...

Hi Melissa and Matt! Just getting around to checking my emails and such. I hope all is well with you both. I wanted to say that your wedding was wonderful and a very special day for you both!

March 11, 2008 at 3:14 PM  
Blogger Torigian said...

Pictures of you and Matthew look great!!!!! Your wedding was picture perfect.

March 11, 2008 at 5:40 PM  
Blogger Linda Corbett said...

The pictures are beautiful the day was beautiful and you two are beautiful!!!! LOVE YOU BOTH

March 11, 2008 at 8:40 PM  
Blogger June said...

Yay! Your pictures are beautiful and so was the wedding day!!!!!

March 12, 2008 at 10:11 AM  
Blogger Amy said...

Melissa, your wedding was the most beautiful wedding that I have ever been too. I remember many delicate touches like the donation cards, monogrammed napkins, gorgeous centerpeices, and the raspberries floating in the champagne.

March 12, 2008 at 4:31 PM  
Blogger EmilyC said...

Pictures look just great!! Good advice to share with future brides who are trying on those heavy, but beautiful, dresses!

March 12, 2008 at 6:51 PM  
Blogger Cindy said...

Cindy said...
I couldn't have asked for a more beautiful daughter-in-law, both inside and out!

March 12, 2008 at 8:32 PM  
Blogger Jerry said...

Great Wedding!! Wonderful to have you for a daughter-in-law, Melissa!

March 12, 2008 at 8:41 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Melissa, you were a perfect bride, you and Matt make a wonderful pair :)

March 13, 2008 at 8:24 AM  
Blogger Zach said...

Great Wedding Mr. and Mrs. Davis!

March 13, 2008 at 2:51 PM  
Blogger ChrissyC said...

Sorry I haven't commented earlier. I tried once already, but it hasn't gone through. I hope this one works.

I had a great time at your wedding and I like your blog story!

March 14, 2008 at 6:26 PM  
Blogger Matthew Davis said...

Nancy!!!! You deleted me once!!! But I can't be stopped!!!! And neither can my new wife!!!

March 15, 2008 at 8:23 PM  
Blogger Gabby said...

Congrats on your wedding day. You and Matt are the perfect pair. I love you both!!!

March 18, 2008 at 9:50 AM  

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