first entry for my fabulous/not-so-fabulous contest!
I've just started to hear from a few of you, but I know there's a lot more, so keep the responses coming! I will blog EVERY response, so everyone has a chance to win a beautiful 16x20 gallery wrap! The first entry is from Melissa. She looked absolutely gorgeous, but looking back has some second thoughts about her dress choice..........
"First, nothing was more exciting than putting on the wedding dress of my dreams. As I had my friends and family help me into my wonderful Kenneth Pool wedding dress, I felt like a princess. The beautiful satin shimmered perfectly, it fit like a glove, and I loved how the dress accented my mother's pearls going down by back. All this sounds just wonderful until I realized that I could barely fit into the antique Bentley I had rented for myself and my parents to take us to the church because my dress was so big! As my father squeezed all of my dress into the backseat (while it was raining), we configured that the only way for me to fit was to sit completely sideways which wasn't what I had in mind for the 40 min drive. I had a gut feeling at this point my dress would become a little problem for me during the day.
As the day progressed, the dress got heavier and heavier and my energy for holding it up got lower and lower. I was started to get pretty sore around dinner time because the weight of the dress was all positioned around my waist and I felt like an engine running out of steam. It was hard to move around on the dance floor, harder to eat, and harder to drink! I actually had to sneak downstairs into the ladies pampering room to take the dress off for a few minutes and breathe! I never thought I would have been in my undies for a few minutes during my wedding so I could catch a breather!!
If I could change anything or advice little brides out there on anything, it would be to pick a LIGHT wedding dress. The day is so much fun and you want to stay as active as possible! I would recommend getting a dress that doesn't weight that much. Honestly, I stepped on the scale with the dress on and I weighed about 18-20 pounds more than I normally do, eek! That's why I was so tired at the end of the day.
I wanted to keep on having fun, so I figured taking off the dress wasn't the end of the world, and I changed into sundress knowing that there had been a ton of great pictures of me in my wedding dress. Coincidentally, my dad forgot the white sundress that I wanted to change into afterwards, so I had to wear a different one.
Which leads me to my next piece of advice, don't sweat the small things that go differently than you planned. So what?, my dad forgot the white dress. When I asked him to put it into the limo, there were a million things going on around us, and he was probably just as nervous getting ready to take his daughter to the church to get married.
I just reminded myself to have fun, smile lots, and look around at all the people who love us. It's a pretty cool feeling and the best experience I have had in my life to date. "
I personally think she looks adorable in her sundress!! What do you think?
Labels: Charter Oak, fabulous/not-so-fabulous, wedding photography
67 Comments:
Great advice (and beautiful images!!)
I love these pictures!! Melissa you look beautiful!
the whole day was just perfect and you married the man of your dreams! but you gave upcoming brides something to think about.your photos capture all the feelings and beauty of your day.
Melis, great advice. Always remember that guests are there to celebrate your marriage, not to check out what you are wearing.
Melissa...you were glowing so much no one even noticed the change!
Meliss you looked absolutely stunning in both the weeding dress and the sundress
Melissa, you were a beautiful bride. If there were problems with your dress, we wouldn't have known. You just kept the perfect smile. You made the best of the situation. Keep smiling!
Love it! Thanks for the advice....
you looked ga-ga-gorgeous babes...20 lb dress on a 100 lb frame and all :) xoxo
The Best Wedding Ive ever been to!
Great advice and an amazing wedding! I love the pictures. You both look so happy.
Such a fun wedding. You looked beautiful Melissa!!
Melissa, you made a gorgeous bride and I couldn't have been happier seeing you walk down the aisle. Every bride deserves their day, and yours was absolutely perfect!
The pictures are great! You look beautiful!
Hey Melissa -
It was a beautiful wedding and you looked absolutely fabulous!!!
Great wedding and perfectly planned out. Every detail was amazing.
Pictures look great. Your wedding was beautiful. I remember your pretty dress and amazing flowers, cake, and delicate details.
You were such a beautiful bride!
If your dress was too heavy, we couldn't tell. You looked so elegant! I loved how the pearls went down your back, it was such a romantic touch.
I loved hearing some of the stories from your day!!!!
It was such a fun day. We both had a great time and felt honored to be included in all the excitment. I like this blog idea, what a great wedding resource for brides.
You were a magnificent bride! The day was wonderful despite the weather. I do recall Laura and I having to "assist" you going to the bathroom. You just couldn't manage by yourself with that dress.
We had the best time at your beautiful wedding!!!!!
You looked stunning in your gown. I remember how pretty you looked walking down the isle. Your vows to each other were just the icing on the cake!
Great Advice!
You were a stunning bride! My husband still talks about the "lamb lollipops" that were passed during cocktail hour!!!
Pictures look just perfect!
Great pictures Melissa!!!
It was such a fun day!! Thanks for sharing some of your wedding day details.
The pics are beautiful! This was the most romantic and beautiful wedding I have been to and I am so glad that I got to be there. I love you!!!
the wedding was awesome and the pictures are so pretty and have awesome effects. i love you!
Melissa you had amazing pictures and your advice is so cute. I loved your dress.
You have the most beautiful wedding pictures. Love you girlie!
The whole wedding day was perfect. You and Matt make the perfect couple.
I was so happy to be with you and Matthew that day. Congrats and happily ever after!
Thanks for including me and sending me your link to the blog!
Great wedding and a great couple. I love you guys!
Meliss, you looked gorgeous! I'm so glad I got you two together ;-)
Had a great time! Remember Laura and I having to assist you in the ladies room because someone had to hold up your dress.
Carol from jersey
We had an excellent time at your wedding! Best Wishes Matthew and Melissa
Dave and I had the greatest time dancing at your wedding! Haha, it was so funny to see Matt break out some of his moves.
Count on me for liquor runs on the way to the reception!
Mark and I had a great time at your wedding. Thank you for including me too!
Melis, well, at least you didn't puke on your dress like little Sarah (although maybe she should have aimed toward you to give you an excuse to get out of your dress!). Good advice you give- SO true, don't sweat the small stuff on the big day...
Your wedding day is a wonderful memory. The church, service, and and father who conducted the ceremony were all perfect.
melissa,
you were almost as beautiful as your mother was on our wedding day.
love, dad
Love these pictures and I love you guys!!!!!
Matt, I had a blast at your wedding!!! Best wishes to you and Melissa
The whole day was wonderful despite the weather. You and Matt were a picture-perfect couple. Great advice for future brides when considering their wedding dress. Love, Sandy G.
Love it! Great piece of advice!
Such a great day! Even though it started off as a rainy day, the skies cleared, and the rain stopped just as you got ready to walk down the isle. Just magical!
You and Matt make the perfect couple. The wedding seemed like just yesterday. I am looking forward to seeing you guys again soon!
Great advice!
Great wedding!
Hi Melissa and Matt! Just getting around to checking my emails and such. I hope all is well with you both. I wanted to say that your wedding was wonderful and a very special day for you both!
Pictures of you and Matthew look great!!!!! Your wedding was picture perfect.
The pictures are beautiful the day was beautiful and you two are beautiful!!!! LOVE YOU BOTH
Yay! Your pictures are beautiful and so was the wedding day!!!!!
Melissa, your wedding was the most beautiful wedding that I have ever been too. I remember many delicate touches like the donation cards, monogrammed napkins, gorgeous centerpeices, and the raspberries floating in the champagne.
Pictures look just great!! Good advice to share with future brides who are trying on those heavy, but beautiful, dresses!
Cindy said...
I couldn't have asked for a more beautiful daughter-in-law, both inside and out!
Great Wedding!! Wonderful to have you for a daughter-in-law, Melissa!
Melissa, you were a perfect bride, you and Matt make a wonderful pair :)
Great Wedding Mr. and Mrs. Davis!
Sorry I haven't commented earlier. I tried once already, but it hasn't gone through. I hope this one works.
I had a great time at your wedding and I like your blog story!
Nancy!!!! You deleted me once!!! But I can't be stopped!!!! And neither can my new wife!!!
Congrats on your wedding day. You and Matt are the perfect pair. I love you both!!!
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